With online dating becoming a new venue for romance and with a lot of people as competition, your profile is your only ticket to getting what you are looking for. And creating a great dating profile is not as easy as it sounds.
To succeed in online dating is to have a great profile. Your profile is your first impression of anyone who might click your name. There’s a saying that the first impression lasts, and making a good first impression is something you should aim for.
Create a great dating profile page that will make anyone mail you in a heartbeat! Here is a checklist for writing your profile:
- When Choosing Adjectives
- How You Live Your Life
- What are You Looking for
- Who are You Looking for
- Grammar and Spelling Check
- Upload a Profile Picture
When Choosing Adjectives
Think of your top 3 character traits. Start off by using 3 adjectives that best describe your personality. This will allow the others to know you have confidence and see a small glimpse of who you are.
Why only 3? It’s a good number! It doesn’t necessarily have to be 3, in fact, you can mention as much as 5. BUT, 3 adjectives are enough to not make you seem like a snob. The purpose is to show off yourself but not to a point that people would think negatively of you.
Understand that there’s “confidence” and “too confident.” And you wouldn’t want to come off as too confident.
Talk about your hobbies and your job; but less focus on the job and more on what you love to do.
Remember that your dating profile page is not the same as a resume. Only mention enough details about your job. People will want to see more about your hobbies and interests, rather than where you have worked. If you love your job, say so. But, understand that it’s more about what you do in your free time.
This should be the most engaging part when you’re writing your profile. It allows everyone to distinguish if you have any similar interests. And having similar interests can be a great foundation for a great relationship.
What Are You Looking For?
If you’re looking for a serious relationship, say so.
If you’re looking for casual dating, say so.
If you’re looking for someone to just have fun with, say so!
People turn to online dating sites for plenty of reasons: casual dating, serious relationship, and hook-ups. It is important that you let it out in the open on what you came here for. This will block the people whom you don’t want approaching you.
Who Are You Looking For?
When you describe who you want to meet, do not talk about physical appearances; like: height and body type. Don’t mention your ideal partner’s education, hobbies and interests. You wouldn’t want to seem superficial and no one wants to meet one either.
We’re talking about values here! Values like: family oriented, values health and fitness, animal lover and etc…
Remember that the people who would be reading on are those who have been hooked thanks to your hobbies and interests. So if you’ve mentioned something about camping, those who don’t like camping are most certainly not reading your profile anymore.
Grammar and Spelling Check!
Okay, it’s not easy to keep track with the right use of punctuation marks and spelling. Heck, even I make mistakes! But, the purpose of your profile is to make a good impression, and having a bad-grammar-free profile is definitely a good boost.
There are a lot of free software and sites that you can use to check your grammar and spelling. You may use Grammarly or Hemingway app; or ask someone who can check it for you.
It’s hard to admit it, but grammar can really make a huge difference when it comes to online dating. Some people can still ignore typos but to some people, bad grammar is a pet peeve. You wouldn’t want people leaving your page just because of grammar.
Upload A Profile Picture
Last but not the least, upload a profile picture. It will help people distinguish you from made-up accounts to legit.
Pictures say a thousand words.
Profile pictures will allow the others to have a better idea of who you are. Your words should be the representation of your picture, but your picture will be the first one to attract others to click. Needless to say, profiles with pictures are the ones that attract the most attention. So, make sure to upload one for yours.